In exchange for providing Sara with a roof over her head and food to eat and sometimes even childcare of Sara's baby James only asked that Sara clean. James did not think this to be a problem because Sara does not have a job. Yes, Sara would have to clean up after James sometimes in addition to other cleaning but it's only right because James is paying her living bills. James does all of this because he wants to see Sara progress and do something with her life. Partially because James loves Sara and wants to see her do well and partially so Sara can stop mooching off of him. The problem is that Sara hasn't done anything tangible besides talk a good game about doing something with her life. She isn't in school, doesn't seem to be looking for a job. On top of all of that Sara doesn't even clean up after herself properly.
In this example, when is James doing Sara a disservice by allowing her self destructive lifestyle to continue? At what point does James tell Sara, look you either achieve "x" by "x" date or you have to get out and find your own road? What exactly are James' options here?
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