Showing posts with label questions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label questions. Show all posts

Monday, September 30, 2013

Your questions answered!!

Thank you guys for showing an interest and asking questions about my African excursion. The questions I got were oddly close to some of my biggest take aways from this deployment. All three of these questions are experiences that will forever stay with me long after this deployment ends.

How many of you earned diving certifications?

- There were quite a few of us that got their SCUBA diving certificate. I am very proud to mention that I am a certified advanced open water diver!!! I can dive to something around 120 feet below the waves and flourish in the aqua blue yonder. I am VERY happy that I had the opportunity to dive and dive often while I was here. The ocean really is amazing! I was blessed to live next to a beautiful beach with an amazing coral reef and crystal clear waters. I saw octopuses, sting rays, star fish, sea cucumbers and incalculable varieties of fish! A group of us even saw a maco shark... Thank god I didn't see that, I probably would have soiled myself.
   SCUBA diving was really an eye opening experience for me. I honestly think that if I had been exposed to this as a child I would have studied marine biology in college! However, I will warn you that the ocean is a HORRIFYING place to be after dark. Biolumesicent organisms are pretty cool, but the rest of the ocean feels like a death trap!!!! Oh and try not to have a panic attack under water because your ears aren't equalizing and the pressure is getting to you, and you forget which way is up, and you forget to breathe.... Not that anything like that has ever happened to me of course.

What are your thoughts on payday PT with the new Battalion?

- Now you know that I would never criticize or speak ill of our leadership. They are doing the best they can to not be completely, wholeheartedly, mind numbing retarded. I think they are fighting the good fight.

How does it feel emotionally and spiritually to be there overall? Being the motherland and all.

- Emotionally, it has been such a beautiful feeling. Being around the original people, the genesis for all mankind. When I saw this I am not using hyperbole, I have looked upon the bones of the earliest human "Lucy" that we know existed. Further than that seeing so many people who look just like me (ESPECIALLY IN ZAMUNDA!!!) being so successful and doing such amazing things. I really feel as if I met kindred spirits in Zamunda, who look out for their communities and sought to elevate their people just like I want to do. Emotionally, it made me feel so much better about my people both members of the diaspora and not.

Spiritually, Africa affected me much more. I think I am going to wear the lessons that I learned in my heart long after the memories of the deployment has faded. The largest spiritual effect that I take away from this is how I view African Americans. First off, I no longer say "nigga". When I got to Africa and I saw how our brothers and sisters acted and carried themselves, from the beggars to the businessmen, I did not see niggas. I saw black people striving for success. This will stay in my heart of hearts. I saw a group of people who were never colonized and the PRIDE that they took in themselves and their actions. I intend to take these lessons back to America. Their ancestors were not slaves, or second class citizens and I saw people that carried themselves as such. We aren't niggas, we should not even think it much less use it to address or describe each other. I encourage you to stop saying it. If you don't want to , I encourage you to come to Africa and ask yourself if you see niggas walking around. Don't worry, I won't be one of the Dr. Cornell West type brothers who chastise you for saying it, this is a decision I made for myself based off of what I have seen.


Saturday, September 1, 2012

How Far?

   At what point are you no longer helping someone and have started enabling their destructive lifestyle?  Obviously, you want to help people and see that they make strides to get their life on track and in many cases you will do whatever you need to facilitate that. At some point I think you reach a point when the things that you are doing to help that person are no longer helping them, indeed you are doing the exact opposite. Take for example a woman who we will call "Sara" who has not held a job in nearly a year, lives with "James" and pays what amounts to a pittance when she does have money. 

  In exchange for providing Sara with a roof over her head and food to eat and sometimes even childcare of Sara's baby James only asked that Sara clean. James did not think this to be a problem because Sara does not have a job. Yes, Sara would have to clean up after James sometimes in addition to other cleaning but it's only right because James is paying her living bills. James does all of this because he wants to see Sara progress and do something with her life. Partially because James loves Sara and wants to see her do well and partially so Sara can stop mooching off of him. The problem is that Sara hasn't done anything tangible besides talk a good game about doing something with her life. She isn't in school, doesn't seem to be looking for a job. On top of all of that Sara doesn't even clean up after herself properly. 

In this example, when is James doing Sara a disservice by allowing her self destructive lifestyle to continue? At what point does James tell Sara, look you either achieve "x" by "x" date or you have to get out and find your own road? What exactly are James' options here?